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Nov 23, 2021

This week we’re talking about GRATITUDE!  Why?  Well… gratitude is our brain's superfood.  If we can feel gratitude... it helps us to feel happier, less depressed, more creative, and more abundant. Heck… it can even work in our brain’s memory centers to help us remember more! 

ALL the good stuff!  BUT... how do we stir it up?  Especially on those days when it might be a little hard to feel grateful?  On those days circumstances make it a real stretch to feel gratitude?  We know we want to… but how do we get there? 

In this episode, I share some science and a few of my own favorite strategies.  BUT I also share 12 tips from YOU…

Dream Think Doers who answered the call… “How do YOU get to gratitude?” It makes for a very special episode that I think you’re going to love.  Most importantly… we’re going to help YOU to find YOUR “Gratitude Secret Weapon!”  So let’s get to this!

RELATED DREAM THINK DO EPISODES:

The “Christmas Carol Method” of getting to Gratitude: https://mitchmatthews.com/304/

The “Rest vs. Restoration” Experiment: https://mitchmatthews.com/330/

DREAM BIG… No Matter What (with Amberly Lago): https://mitchmatthews.com/310/ 

The FIVE Non-Negotiables for an Ideal Day (with Sarah Yourgrau): https://mitchmatthews.com/294/

MORE ABOUT THE The Gratitude Secret Weapon EPISODE:

Gratitude is our brain’s SUPERFOOD.  (The upside is that it doesn’t taste nasty like Kale. LOL!)  There’s PLENTY of science to show that when we intentionally stir up Gratitude… it makes a BIG difference IN our bodies and WITH our perspective on the day and our world!  BUT the question is: HOW do you get there?

With this episode, I’m going to walk you through 14 different strategies to help you fill your Gratitude ToolBox!  The extra-special part of this episode is that 12 of those ideas come from YOU!  That’s right!  I posed the question on Facebook and you guys BROUGHT IT!  (By the way… if we’re not connected on Facebook… make sure to reach out there! Let’s friend it up… friend!)

The "Gratitude Secret Weapon" is a simple two-step process:

 1.) Acknowledge the importance of Gratitude

 2.) Find YOUR way to stir it up!

My GO-TO Gratitude Strategy:  “Gratitude… NOW!”

Listen to the episode to get the full story, but I like to ask the simple question: “What can I be grateful for... RIGHT NOW?”

Melissa’s GO TO Gratitude Strategy:  “Gratitude for YOU!”

Again… listen to the episode to get the full story, but my bride finds that her “Secret Weapon” for stirring up true gratitude is to relay her gratitude to someone else.  She LOVES to tell others how she’s grateful for them.  It’s a true gratitude win/win!

SO… I asked YOU what YOU do to stir up gratitude… to get your brain some of that superfood!  And you BROUGHT it!!!  You submitted ideas… and I’ll admit I added names to make them a bit more memorable!  But here are the ideas… in your own words.  So… here we go!

1.) "Snooze Bar" Gratitude

Denise Griffitts: “What a lovely idea! I used to be one of those people who would hit the floor running and as my mom would say, oh crap she’s awake. But over time I have learned to stay in the bed, breathe, and examine what I am so grateful for. It starts the morning in a perfect kind of way. There’s a lot to be said for quiet moments of reflection.”

2.) The "Tuck the Day Away" Strategy:

Annie Caves: 

“Honestly I think it was realizing it is good and bad in every day- and what you focus on is made bigger. I heard that how you end your day is how you “tuck it away” in your mind- so I ask the questions:

  • What good thing happened today?
  • What am I grateful for tonight?

It helps me to tuck each day away as a good day!

It is truly a practice - and when life SUCKS is when I am more mindful of finding what I’m grateful for.”

NOTE: A LOT of people suggested keeping a Gratitude Journal.  Chuck Thuss brought his to our recent “Next Level Speaker Event” and he showed folks how he’s been doing this for YEARS and it’s made a HUGE impact on his life.

3.) "Dinner Table" Gratitude

Dan Zehner: 

“Every night with our kids, everyone in the family shares at least one thing we're grateful for. My 3-year-old is constantly grateful for pre-school (too cute). Sometimes it's a favorite toy, time with mom and dad, or just getting to watch their favorite show. It's a great time as a family!”

4.) Find It and Turn it UP!

Denny Ransom: 

“My daily(ish) practice: 

  • I pull up mental images of the people and things in my life that I'm most grateful for. 
  • I cycle through those images until I feel a sense of gratitude in my body. 
  • Once I have that feeling, I turn all of my attention to how gratitude feels in my body, which tends to amplify it. 
  • Once I have that feeling 'turned up as much as I can get, I start repeating a little mantra I have:

            "My life is filled with blessings, I am grateful." 

  • Through repetition with this process, I've pretty much anchored the feeling of gratitude to that phrase. 
  • If I'm struggling, or need quick access to a state of gratitude, now I can just say that phrase a few times and the feeling of gratitude comes alive in me almost instantly. 
  • This practice was a game-changer for learning how to quickly access resourceful states.”

5.) "Happy Memory" Gratitude

Julie Thompson: 

“I learned recently to think back on a happy memory and remember the feelings of gratitude and joy I had. I might think about a family vacation, a special holiday, or a time that I experienced joy while in nature, like standing on a mountain and being captured by the view. I also name things out loud for which I am grateful, and I use Ann Voskamp's monthly gratitude list of ideas from her website.”

6.) The "Gratitude Together" Strategy:

Cheryl Swisher: 

“I am part of a group and we submit 1 thing daily that we are grateful for the next 30 days.”

Create a group and start doing this!

7.) The "It's Not ALL Me" Strategy:

Patricia Ortega: 

“I can be a little prideful, so I start with what I’m most proud of (big success at work, owning a home, good marriage...) then I stop and think about how it was NOT all me who made that happen (sometimes it’s not me at all!)... I have been blessed by other people, circumstances, resources, that made these things possible. 

For example my husband’s amazing grace, patience, love, and leadership play a major/primary role in making our marriage great, and it’s what I’m soooo grateful for ❤️.  So my little activity works on both my gratitude and humility. Because God knows we need both. :)”

8.) The "It's a Wonderful Life" Strategy:

Nicholas Andrew:

“For me, gratitude starts with selflessness. I meditate on what I have and then picture my life specifically without those things. 

I get deep into what it would feel like to not have who and what I have. I then look again at what I have In my life and the fact that I wake up every morning to it. I thank God for waking me up and then just have a moment of silence with myself.

But going deep on the emotions of what life would be like if you lost everything puts what you do have in perspective. I don't take little things for granted as much. My Attitude is Gratitude!  For me, it starts and ends with Flip'n your mindset to Flip your Reality.”

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9.) The "Grateful TOGETHER" Strategy:

LeeLee Genovese:
“Gratitude is the single most important practice I have ever taken on. I do it daily, usually in my journal, but also focusing on things I am grateful for, happy about, excited about, proud of, committed to, who I love, etc.. to mix up the focus. 

I also have categories to spread the grateful love around and think about my mind, body, spirit, family, nature, experiences, beliefs, friends, tangibles, and intangibles, ohhh Love it so. 

***BUT, the single most exciting part of my gratitude practice is that at the beginning of last year my husband and I started one together. 

Simple and sweet and my favorite part of the day. It is also a blessed way to end the day as we do it just before we go to bed, pillow talk gratitude if you will. 

I started asking my husband what he was grateful for and he loved it so much we often race to be the first to ask. Just the asking warms my heart. The things we share always fill my heart with happiness and love.

Communication is powerful as we often learn about each other, or are reminded about the wonderful things we both like doing together, dream together, set goals and intentions together. It is surely a powerful practice for any relationship, I highly recommend it. I'm addicted and can't sleep without it.”

10.) The "Random Acts of Gratitude" Strategy (RAGS):

Heather Medford:

“I practice random acts of kindness. I’m pretty good about doing that often, but especially if I am in a funk, I will go out and intentionally share smiles and kindness! It’s the best way to snap myself back into gratitude!”

11.) The "Write a Letter" Strategy:

Aree Bly: If I really want to go big, I write a letter. 

Full-size paper. 

Pen. 

Envelope with a stamp. 

It’s like writing a journal entry about how an individual has impacted me, and also letting them know it. 

So I get my own gratitude and I get to share it with them. Win-win.

12.) The "Send it Ahead" Strategy:

Sonja Sorenson Arnold:

“In the morning I send my gratitude ahead of me. I think about (sometimes write them down) what is happening today that I will be grateful for.  I think about who I will see and activities I will engage in and let myself feel that gratitude. Then when they happen I can add a second layer of gratitude... even when if they play out differently than expected!  I’m still thankful and move into gratitude!

So there you have it.

12 + the two from Melissa and me.  

14 different ideas for sparking gratitude.

REMEMBER: The key is:

  1. Recognize the power of gratitude in our lives
  2. Find YOUR secret weapon 

a.) That thing that YOU do!

b.) Maybe it’s one of these 14

c.) Or maybe you adapt one of these

d.) Find YOUR way… and that will be YOUR “Secret Weapon”

One last note… In the end… I’ve found that having a number of different tools to get to gratitude is my secret weapon… because I like to mix things up AND I have a short attention span… so I need to keep things fresh!  If you can identify with THAT… I hope these 14 added some new tools to the toolbox!

Okay… well… if you’re in the US… I hope you have a WONDERFUL Thanksgiving!  And no matter where you are listening from in the world… know that I’m GRATEFUL FOR YOU!  Seriously!!!

Please share this episode with someone who might need it!  And if you haven’t already… please leave a review wherever you listen to the podcast!

LASTLY… I WANT TO HEAR FROM YOU!

Let’s keep the conversation going!  What’s one of YOUR favorite tools for getting to GRATITUDE?  Big or small… comment and let me know!  I can’t wait to hear from YOU!

And until next time… keep bringing your awesome!  Because the world needs it! 

Episode Minute By Minute:

  • 0:02 What to expect today
  • 2:02 Episode starts
  • 2:12 The scientific truth behind gratitude
  • 6:28 What sparked the inspiration for this episode
  • 12:22 Step up to the gratitude buffet
  • 14:23 The snooze bar strategy
  • 17:53 Keep a gratitude journal
  • 18:59 The dinner table strategy
  • 20:01 The Find it and turn it about strategy
  • 26:17 The it’s not all about me strategy
  • 30:31 Shout-out time!
  • 33:17 The grateful together strategy
  • 34:04 The random acts of gratitude strategy
  • 36:07 The write a letter strategy
  • 38:03 What’s your secret weapon?
Nov 17, 2021

Dr. Mike Patterson is a lifelong learner dedicated to helping leaders and teams get stuff done!  He’s the author of the book, “Mission First, People Always: The Definitive Guide to Balancing People and Performance.”  I can say that Mike is a leader you want to learn from… because he was actually a leader for me when I first entered the corporate world YEARS ago… and his leadership style had a huge impact on me.  That’s why I’m so excited to introduce him to YOU!  In addition to an impressive pedigree in education, Mike has also been an officer in the Army; and he’s been a leader in sales, marketing, and training with the corporate world.  More recently… he’s teaching doctoral programs AND doing consulting and speaking… that allows him to work with leaders and teams from many of the world’s top organizations. We’re talking about what it takes to be “Mission Focused” and how we can get there as individuals and as leaders!

RESOURCES:

Mike’s Website: drmikepatterson.com

Mike’s book: https://www.missionfirstpeoplealwaysbook.com

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmichaellpatterson

Mike’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therealdrmikepatterson

OTHER RELATED EPISODES:

Lindsay Strage: Someone who’s living her MISSION: https://mitchmatthews.com/337

Is being a SPEAKER part of YOUR mission: https://mitchmatthews.com/332

Jess Ekstrom: Someone else who’s LIVING her MISSION: https://mitchmatthews.com/242

MORE ON ARTHUR GUINNESS:

During our conversation, we mention that Mike pointed to the founder of the Guinness Brewery as an example of someone who LIVED true to his MISSION.  Here’s a few fun (and inspiring) facts you probably didn’t know!

https://www.irishcentral.com/roots/history/facts-arthur-guinness

https://www.guinness-storehouse.com/content/pdf/archive-factsheets/general-history/arthur-guinness.pdf

MORE ON MIKE PATTERSON:

Mike teaches in the doctoral programs at Pepperdine University’s Graduate School of Education and Psychology and California Baptist University. 

Other academics: 

  • Wheaton College on a 4-year Army ROTC scholarship
  • While on active duty in Germany, Mike earned a MPA from Troy University. 
  • A few years into his business career, he earned a MA in organizational leadership with high honors from Biola University.
  • Followed by a Certificate in Biblical Studies from Biola’s Talbot School of Theology. 
  • Then Mike completed his doctoral work at Pepperdine University’s Graduate School of Education and Psychology. 

His consulting firm is Ambassador Associates. Their goal is to help clients bridge the gap that sometimes exists between people and performance. 

MINUTE BY MINUTE:

  • 0:02 What to expect today
  • 1:20 Conversation starts
  • 2:17 How Mitch and Mike met
  • 6:23 The importance of “seeing” people
  • 9:55 Why your mission truly matters
  • 18:27 You are blessed to be a blessing
  • 19:42 How to get more clear on your vision
  • 24:48 Conflict triggers and how to use them
  • 31:09 Help your team (and yourself) staying on mission
  • 38:31 What Mike wishes he understood sooner
  • 40:05 Mitch’s minute

NOW… I want to hear from YOU!

Comment and let me know what stood out to YOU from my convo with Mike.  

More importantly… what might be your MISSION for 2022 and beyond?

Here’s some questions to guide you:

  • What do you want to see more of in 2022?
  • What change do you want to be a part of in 2022?
  • What’s a small but significant step you can take towards THAT… today?

Comment and let us know.  

What’s YOUR mission for life and/or leadership?  And/or why do YOU think it’s important to get clear on your mission?  Or… why do you think it’s not?  Or… how do YOU get clear on your mission?  What questions do you ask yourself?  What questions do you suggest for people to help them get clear on THEIR mission?  Let me know your thoughts.  I can’t wait to hear from YOU!

Nov 11, 2021

Jon Acuff is a creative force for good.  Heck, I’d even call him a creative juggernaut.  He’s written 7 NYT bestselling books in the last 11 years… including “Finish: Give Yourself the Gift of Done,” and “​​START: Punch fear in the face, escape average and do work that matters.”  His most recent book is “Soundtracks - The Surprising Solution to Overthinking.”  (It’s crazy good!)  Guys… 7 books in 11 years?  Creatively… that’s like having 7 babies in 11 years.  Not only that… but he’s talking with and creating content for a lot of people.  He's an INC Magazine Top 100 Leadership speaker and has spoken to hundreds of thousands of people at conferences and companies around the world.  Plus, he’s creating content for his “robust” (total understatement) social media following.  Oh… and he’s got his podcast too… “All it takes is a goal.”As he delivers all of this amazing content… he brings powerful tools and strategies… with some serious doses of humor… truth and hope.  During our conversation… we’re going to talk about how he creates all of this content AND how he has to apply the strategies from his own book… to bust through the overthinking trap that can shut us all down!  It’s a powerful and fun conversation I think you’re going to love!  So let’s get to it!

FIND JON ON THE WEBS:

Facebook: https://m.facebook.com/authorjonacuff/ 

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jonacuff/ 

Twitter: https://twitter.com/JonAcuff

Websites: https://acuff.me 

https://www.amazon.com/Soundtracks-Surprising-Overthinking-Jon-Acuff/dp/1540900800 

 

EPISODE MINUTE BY MINUTE:

  • 0:02 What to expect today
  • 1:27 Episode begins
  • 4:30 A look into Jon’s creative process
  • 10:02 Why speaking is perfect for introverts
  • 15:41 Jon’s journaling routine
  • 20:36 How Jon sets his week up for success
  • 27:11 Your key to stop overthinking for good
  • 32:02 Finding your “broken soundtracks”
  • 41:12 Jon’s Doppelganger
  • 42:48 How to add more honest humor to your life
  • 44:43 A new project Jon is working on
  • 50:26 Mitch’s Minute 

I WANT TO HEAR FROM YOU!

Okay… so I shared some of my biggest takeaways during my Mitch’s Minute (which may have been a little bit more like 10 minutes!).  How about YOU!?  What’s something that struck you from this conversation?  I want to hear from YOU!  

 

  • Somewhere you’ve been overthinking and you need some new “Soundtracks”
  • Something you needed to hear
  • Something that resonated (big or small)
  • Something you TOTALLY agreed with
  • Or… something you DIDN’T agree with at all
  • Or… what’s a NEW “soundtrack” that you’re playing after listening to this convo

 

 

 

 

Leave a comment and let me know.  I can’t wait to hear from YOU!

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